somethinggood57 68M  
14 posts
9/11/2019 2:27 pm

Why don't women respond on I.M.?
I. M. not working
Only there to comunicate with family and friends
Not interested
Scared to respond

7807 posts
9/11/2019 4:24 pm

because IM is fucky ?

2Saltie2 62F  
1708 posts
9/11/2019 5:30 pm

Other. I don't use it normally. When I do its to tell the person to read my profile if the person is polite and no dick picture. For paying members I might say another paying member who doesn't believe in reading profiles. If crude or a dick picture my answer varies. I know standards can't read profiles but they shouldn't whine (some not all) that women are rude or fake. Not rude not to answer spam and not fake because don't use the im.

Love all animals. Tolerates humans.

Granny872 67F  
1460 posts
9/11/2019 5:51 pm

I scan the person's profile before I respond to an IM. Even if the person's opening comment is polite or neutral, if the profile bothers me or doesn't interest me I won't respond. I don't feel obligated to respond to every IM -

None of us are getting out alive, so let's at least try to be nice to each other while we're here.

anon04184 35M
46 posts
9/12/2019 5:31 am

hard out here for a pimp

FresnoWoman 48F
529 posts
9/12/2019 1:29 pm

I don't respond because I'm not interested (too old or too young, not local, that kind of thing). I suppose I also don't respond because the IM didn't make it through to me, but I wouldn't have any way of knowing about it unless the IMer sent me an email or mentioned it to me in a chat room.

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