Flirting Questions.  

utfrangrl 45F  
19576 posts
6/8/2017 9:57 am
Flirting Questions.

Some Flirting Questions.
Hey friends. I'm curious to know how you feel about flirting.

Q1. When someone flirts with you here on the site, do you flirt back or just ignore their flirt?

Q2. Do you use the flirt here on the site to flirt with other site members?

Q3. Do you consider flirting a essential thing to do or a waste of time?

dafocker44 60M
937 posts
6/8/2017 10:27 am

What is that? How do I know when they flirt? Mostly what I see is someone calling out "Troll"!! Life is cruel!!!!!

[I]Da Focker!!

kgbuds69 30M/28F  
897 posts
6/8/2017 10:36 am

I do flirt back a lot to those who send me flirts and those I see on the site I like I sometimes will send them a flirt.

imagetaker 65M  
50 posts
6/8/2017 10:54 am

Here is something I just posed on my blog. I'd like to get some feedback from the ladies:

Meelp describes the "flirt" as a way of expressing interest in someone's post and profile. We all know there are a lot of fakes on here, but for you ladies who are "real", why do you flirt and what does it mean to you?

I think I speak for most men in saying that we HOPE a flirt is more that just another way of saying hello. However the big brain in me feels it's not that big a deal for most ladies. It's a lot like our sweet ladies of the south referring to some one as "sweetie", "sugar" or "darling". It has nothing to do with affection, just normal phrases used.

I guess when someone 2000 miles away flirts with me, it's just that they saw something in my images they liked. Once in awhile I get mail from someone complimenting my photography and that I understand, and appreciate. But just a flirt by itself with no other follow up I find confusing.

On the other hand, ft someone who lives close to me flirts, seems to be compatible on likes, I think they are open to at least contact by email. However they often give no response. This makes me think it may be a fake posting.

Educate me ladies. What am I missing or why do you not reply to initial messages that are simple follow ups?

Imthatman17 51M
51 posts
6/8/2017 12:13 pm


MyBaffies 49M
3563 posts
6/8/2017 12:55 pm

A1. It depends. Any flirt I've received has always been a spamming/scamming profile or one from a profile at least >1000 miles away. If it was from someone closer then I might flirt back.

A2. No, don't think I've ever sent a deliberate flirt. I gather the females get a lot of mails and flirts so another one would just get lost amongst the hoards and be ignored.

A3. I'm sure it works for some people, but I'm not convinced it brings anything to the site.


My Blog: MyBaffies

cyclingfool 57M  
6453 posts
6/8/2017 4:25 pm

I flirt with women as a form of hey, I think you are cute and or I like your profile. I don't mind when women flirt with me, but often they are fake profiles. 20 somethings flirting with me? I think not. But someone age appropriate, that I enjoy.
i cam sometimes and I am sorry to say I get more attention from men and as a result get flirts and hot listed. I just ignore them.

K1ssGasm 48M

6/8/2017 10:05 pm

I use it, but don't really expect anything of it. It is a nice quick gesture that you simply enjoy what you saw or read. I like getting them. I'll sometimes flirt with someone who is too far to really write to them because that is mostly pointless. Though, I've had some great exchanges with people at times when there is anything of interest to exchange about.

What's going on? That is what Marvin Gaye wanted to know!

4 Non Blondes also wanted to know What's Up too; thus, got to feeling a little peculiar, so screamed from the top of the lungs... What's going on?

I don't know what's going on. I am so in deep with you. - The Cure

shaftie69 35M
21 posts
6/14/2017 7:52 am

ill senda flirt as a first conact yet i dont know what its says,hummmm didnt think of that till now, but if i recieve a flirt ill send one back,im lookin for like minded people but not jus that to make friends along the way, an ignoring people is kinda rude well ignoing you ladies is but i get why you would brush off most of the guys. do people not like recieving flirts?? an im j7s a freemember so i stack up my points an top bid who i think we might click an only when an if we become friends then i can send a flirt.

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Torrid7 69T
497 posts
6/23/2017 3:13 pm

Oh I flirt back of corse.


Dan557 57M
1309 posts
8/15/2017 8:19 am

When someone flirts to me on site I flirt back if I find out on her profile something of interest. It is one way of getting connected.

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