wetbetweenmylegz 47F
288 posts
8/14/2017 7:46 pm

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Why is it that some married men assume a woman should host them? If you were looking to meet a woman that is also married what would you do?

Why is it that some other married men say they are looking for a single woman that can commit to them? You can't commit to her?

Just two of many things that I find odd...

brestmn05 42M
51 posts
8/26/2017 6:19 am

Your questions are all VERY valid and I am sure they arose from personal experience. Unfortunately I sort of fall into the category of men who can't currently host do in part to my realtionship status, but more do to my current living situation. I have learned through experience not to assume anything when it comes to starting a friendship or meeting a woman. When it comes to the subject of taking things to an intimate level and where to go for comfort and privacy, it can be complicated for some people. I believe men who are attached or can't host do to other reasons, are looking for a woman who can host and would assume a single woman MIGHT be able to host just because she is single. That's their fault for making the assumption and not taking into consideration that women need to work harder to support themselves so it can be difficult to find your own place without a roommate. Another factor men tend to overlook is the fact women often need to play it safe and not make themselves too vulnerable for obvious safety reasons. Afterall you need to be able to trust the person you are bringing home.

sexydad1167 51M  
1360 posts
8/19/2017 8:22 am

Not thati would but if i was married looking id get a hotel room. if later she wanted to host then ok.

I think because most guys who are cheaters want the best of both worlds They want the wife at home to take of the home needs and the GF to take care of the other needs when ever he says jump, and dont want to share either one.

YandTandA 43M
591 posts
8/15/2017 11:27 am

On Adult FREAK-Finder, NOTHING is Odd.

wetbetweenmylegz replies on 8/17/2017 7:15 pm:
Or everything is all a question of perspective!

richnma 58M  
13 posts
8/15/2017 3:15 am

First off your both married and I wouldnt expect the female would host I would first meet in a public place then if things work out the next time get a room. I had only one married woman who hosted and the first time being in her home fucking her on their bed was kinda hot but I was nervous as hell.

the second part of your question I don't look for single females I would think the only reason why I married guy would want a single female they would think that they could host and won't have to pay for a room

wetbetweenmylegz replies on 8/19/2017 7:58 am:
I appreciate you perspective... and candor. {=}

modena0044 59M
44 posts
8/14/2017 10:12 pm

Yeah find somewhere neutral to begin with then....if that works......take it from there.........

wetbetweenmylegz replies on 8/17/2017 7:14 pm:
That seems fair and reasonable...

Yours_4A_knight 54M  
1161 posts
8/14/2017 9:41 pm

my personal take is that anyone who uses this site, and has as one of their primary considerations "the ability of commit to a lifetime exclusive relationship with me" are chasing something that is not possible, well very unlikely. It happens, but those are happy accidents.

I hate the "its a sex site" excuse for bad behavior, especially some of the more stupid things that men can do, but this is a site that does lean towards casual physical relationships. I know that you can find many of the same people on other more straight sites, but if you are primarily interested in a less casual relationship maybe you should approach them from there?

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

PhoenixMuscle23 50M  
62 posts
8/14/2017 9:23 pm

ill get a suite at the Hilton....will you cum?

s2ndegree 60M  
9284 posts
8/14/2017 9:10 pm

This is where anything goes and people yearn to find validation
from what they put others through currently or in the past.

Using more than all the road!

185 posts
8/14/2017 8:05 pm

Marriage is a prison and everyone should escape it. We are never meant to commit to one person the rest of our lives...insanity!

wetbetweenmylegz replies on 8/17/2017 7:12 pm:
That seems a little rough... some people have amazing marriages and some people have amazing unconventional marriages and some people are unlucky and have less than amazing marriages... but no two are the same

vtguy12 57M  
265 posts
8/14/2017 7:55 pm

Answer to question 1 find a neutral place to meet. Cannot answer the second question since I do not expect that kind of commitment.

wetbetweenmylegz replies on 8/17/2017 7:17 pm:
Neutral location makes sense to me... and I didn't mean imply that all men ask for those things just have had several that have and I was trying to understand their perspective.

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