#31 Symposium Handles  

wickedeasy 69F  
9428 posts
6/1/2017 3:29 pm
#31 Symposium Handles

When I first started on this site, I hung out in the basement with all the BDSM folk under a disgusting handle. BadAssBlonde, a Domme of elegance and great kindness, took me aside and said, “precious, if you don’t change that revolting name, I will never be able to speak to you without gagging.” I would have done anything for that Woman. So I came back with a second try. BAB shot me a look. across the crowded room. I received an email shortly thereafter. Apparently, this attempt was still not a winner. I had a week’s grace period.

So, I spent some time thinking about how I wanted to present myself both as a submissive but also as a woman. At that time I was collared, so I asked my Dom. He gave me a list of adjectives. Some I tossed, some I kept. I did this with a number of people from the site but also from my work and life. When the same words appeared over and over I took it as a sign. These were my words that repeated:

Kind easy to be with listener empathetic
Wicked naughty a scamp playful
Smart intuitive perceptive shrewd
Snarky caustic brat

Being from Bawstin, I liked wicked as an adjective. In my youth I must have said it a million times. Wicked cool, wicked fast, wicked bad, wicked pissah. and though I toyed with smart and snarky, my Dom flatly refused both although He would have allowed brat. Pfft. Eventually I chose easy because of the song. “Easy, easy as Sunday morning.”



Et voila, I became as wicked as Saturday night, as easy as Sunday morning. One blogger has called me Oui, which I adore. In fact, it gave me the shivers. I find it interesting to see which part of the handle people choose.

In the end, when i walked back into the basement as wickedeasy, BAB greeted me with “ Precious, now there’s my girl!” and gave me a SKOMC. The other Doms in the room fell to using wicked or easy but BAB always called me Precious, unless she was annoyed. I cherished that.

And no, I will never ever tell you my first handle. Suffice it to say, I was overly descriptive. SNORK.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wickedeasy 69F  
32417 posts
6/1/2017 3:31 pm

as you can see, even the highway department uses the term to warn drivers of hazardous travelling conditions...............

it's a Bawstin thing
.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


lok4fun500 109M  
44481 posts
6/1/2017 6:32 pm

Thank you for all that info!
Did you get the term "SNORK" from Tim Conway on the Carol Burnett Show years ago?




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wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 11:52 am:
gee, not that i'm aware of. although I did love that show so who knows

SGTRocknuts 66M
230 posts
6/1/2017 9:29 pm

Thanks for sharing some of your personal life. When I first saw your picture and read your post I didn't have a clue. I thought you were a Japanese Warrior or a Ninja. Not that there is anything wrong in that (to each her own). I found a lot of wisdom in your writing and enjoy reading the things you say.

SGTRocknuts


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 11:56 am:
grins. my pic is of me on a very cold day at Walden Pond encased in multiple sweaters and hats, trying to climb stairs while barely able to move. I call it my gnome look.

SGTRocknuts 66M
230 posts
6/1/2017 9:32 pm

Woops! I didn't mean to write with letters that huge! Sorry.

SGTRocknuts


KItkat1415 57F  
19815 posts
6/1/2017 10:54 pm

Sis,
I love this story! Thank you and for keeping the Symposium going strong with your contribution.
Kk

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I may not do right, but I do write,
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wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 11:57 am:
sis, you're wickedpissah. but then you know that......winks

author51 56F
80190 posts
6/2/2017 12:55 am

One of my fave.songs is Easy Like Sunday Morning or I'm Easy by Keith Carradine..I am glad I found your handle a long time ago my wickedeasy friend.One of my favorite writers on this site..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 11:57 am:
safe travels and have a wonderful vacation.

goodatpoetry2 69M
16571 posts
6/2/2017 3:59 am

I really enjoyed reading this. . I love hearing about you and your background. . As one of my favorite people here, I enjoy knowing all about you.

And I love the name, WickedEasy... wicked as Saturday night, as easy as Sunday morning.. just perfect!

Now, what does SKOMC stand for? . I can't find it anywhere...


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 11:58 am:
soft kiss on my cheek. smiles.

sending you one now

azriel1970 49M  
27054 posts
6/2/2017 5:03 am

I might need to post about mine....

I love your handle and I think it fits you so well. I won't ask what you first handle was but I am intrigued of what it was


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 11:59 am:
ah, the power of intrigue.............

I love the idea of you as the golden boned genie............

pocogato12 67F  
29070 posts
6/2/2017 6:07 am

I hope we don't find out your first handle- it might destroy the image we have of
you as "wickedeasy". I love to read you posts- they are always eye and soul opening. Thank You for sharing this

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wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:00 pm:
someday, we will share a bottle of wine and some olives and good bread and I will tell you silly stories. then, who knows?

sweet_VM 61F  
80376 posts
6/2/2017 7:44 am

Wow not that is an interesting handle you had before for this site Wicked. I like the one you have now. A great story by the way.. loved it hugssssssssss V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:00 pm:
don't you dare tell

spunkycumfun 59M/64F  
36125 posts
6/2/2017 12:34 pm

This is great finding out how people choose their usernames. I want to visit Bawstin!
My Dad used to say wicked a lot, in the sense of evil, and my friends just laughed!
And oui, my Dad was also very easy going.


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:02 pm:
oh, I bet you're very like him then..........full of the devil and yet easy to be with

spunkycumfun 59M/64F  
36125 posts
6/2/2017 12:35 pm

If it's okay with you, I'll pimp your post on the group's page.
I love your blog.


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:03 pm:
bless you.......I've tried ten ways to forever and it just doesn't work. I told poco I wanted to learn how and she's being ever so nice about trying to get me there but it's like being waterboarded.

greekphilosopher 56M
4085 posts
6/3/2017 1:27 am

Another one who felt the need to change their original user name! They say our first choices are usually the best. That does not seem to work with usernames, especially when you first land on here!
.... overly descriptive..... I am now thinking of nipple clamps, chains and ropes, the bench, the rings on the wall, the collar, a tied up slut, the master with the attitude, something wet, something hard, hmmm
You got there in the end, with some help from your friends! I think wickedeasy suits you, too!


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:04 pm:
grins.........you're pretty close darlin'.........

HeartCollector 62F  
7784 posts
6/3/2017 4:43 pm

I've had four blogs and names here. My favorite was Strong Shuga...friend Doe inadvertently gave it to me.

The gladdest hours we know are those shared with a friend or two. Wilbur D. Nesbit


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:05 pm:
oh, I like that one.

he's pulling everyone's leg this week.....so glad he's back being mischievous

rick315875 61M
7813 posts
6/4/2017 1:43 am

Wow! A fellow Bostonian! I lived in Massachusetts. Loved going into Boston. Faneuil Hall. Red light district Washington Street. The combat zone! But that was back in the 70s all that has disappeared now.

. . .


wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 12:07 pm:
the combat zone......lol. it's too bad it's gone really. it gave everyone a location to score weed. such a mild little place in actuality, wasn't it?

smartasswoman 62F  
31710 posts
6/5/2017 11:55 am

I'm sure most of us would have benefited from having a username "editor" like you did! Your end result is wonderful.


wickedeasy replies on 6/6/2017 12:10 pm:
grins............it was a critical change and absolutely necessary

lok4fun500 109M  
44481 posts
6/5/2017 12:05 pm

wickedeasy replies on 6/5/2017 2:52 pm:
gee, not that i'm aware of. although I did love that show so who knows

In an episode Tim Conway add libbed most of the show and at one point he told Carol and Harvey what sound an elephant made......."SNORK"....well I still laugh today and I have taught my grandsons that is the sound an elephant makes




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wickedeasy replies on 6/6/2017 12:11 pm:
wow..............so I may be a thief.

I loved Conway. I loved how he would destroy the scenes, making the others dissolve..........

spunkycumfun 59M/64F  
36125 posts
6/5/2017 12:53 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    If it's okay with you, I'll pimp your post on the group's page.
    I love your blog.
This is how you posting hypertext links to your blog posts.
The number os this post as shown at the bottom of the page is post 3990300.
You just need to put [square brackets] around post 3990300 and it becomes a hypertext link.


wickedeasy replies on 6/6/2017 12:14 pm:
well thanks for that spunky but while I wrote it down exactly as you posted it, I will promise you that when I try...........something will go wrong. computers simply do NOT like me

spunkycumfun 59M/64F  
36125 posts
6/6/2017 1:03 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    This is how you posting hypertext links to your blog posts.
    The number os this post as shown at the bottom of the page is post 3990300.
    You just need to put [square brackets] around post 3990300 and it becomes a hypertext link.
Computer don't like me either or rather I don't like computers.
But here's the magic with your post 3990300.
With no brackets nothing happens, post 3990300.
With (round brackets) nothing happens, (post 3990300).
With [square brackets] this happens, #31 Symposium Handles and we're back to where we are!


lok4fun500 109M  
44481 posts
6/6/2017 1:43 pm

wickedeasy replies on 6/6/2017 3:11 pm:
wow..............so I may be a thief.

I loved Conway. I loved how he would destroy the scenes, making the others dissolve..........

That's what happened in this episode....Carol and Harvey kept laughing so hard, they couldn't continue the scene!




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