I am looking to have fun with open-minded, friendly, sexy people. I am relaxed and present in sexual situations, and enjoy 1-on-1s, threesomes and more. I like the group dynamic - I enjoy being watched, and I enjoy watching. There's nothing like the raw immediacy of sex to pleasurably overwhelm the mind. I am comfortable with incidental male touching during threesome and group play. I've seen it described as bi-friendly. I enjoy the erotic, which manifests in many ways. The photos in my 'Favorite Photos' tab give some idea of the types of things that turn me on. I'm not into extreme pain and toilet stuff, but playful short term pain can be very pleasurable. I love giving pleasure as much as I do receiving it, orally and otherwise. Bringing someone to orgasm with my tongue, lips and fingers is an unbeatable feeling!

My Ideal Person People who find joy in the sexual side of life, people with a good sense of humor and flirtatious, playful personalities who are looking to enjoy life in general and like to explore both its sexual and non-sexual possibilities.

To be friends both inside and outside the bedroom is ideal, but if that's not possible because of distance or other factors, it's not a must-have.

I could write a long list of personal attributes and activities that I appreciate or that turn me on, but you never really know until you talk to someone, or get to meet them, if it works.

Let's meet for drinks or a meal and see if there's chemistry. If there is, then we've found new friends, and if there isn't, we've at least had a nice meal and/or drinks!

I'm looking for people who find sex and sexuality fascinating and want to explore it with others. If "others" includes me, that's perfect!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bob Dylan, Neil Young, Lucinda Williams, Grabage, Pet
ShopBoys, PJ Harvey, Emmylou Harris.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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