I recently moved from the middle of Missouri to the south coast of Oregon - best move of my life! I was married to a frigid woman for over 30 years and I never strayed because I would not break my vows to her and to myself. After my divorce, I got together with a woman in similar circumstances on AFF, and were together in a loving relationship for about 4 years that involved both of us learning what we missed by being open to experimentation (both of us had always been vanilla). She recently moved to help her mom back east. Had she not moved, I believe we probably would have been together for the rest of our lives. We got along very well together, and enjoyed exploring the country, and each other. I am seeking another mature woman for a possible LTR if we are compatible and she is also willing to be open to the various joys of life. I am an average man, supposedly educated, and I like a woman who has a positive attitude, and willing to try new things. I like sailing, kayaking and canoeing (on reaably calm lakes and rivers), flying, movies (especially sci-fi), and the music of the 60's (Harry Bellafonte - Brothers Four - Kingston Trio - Smothers Brothers - Beach Boys - most Jazz - much of the music of other cultures)and most classical. (One of the Kingston Trio came to my beach party in San Diego.) I was raised near the beaches in southern California, and I have finally returned to the left coast, albeit a little north so the water is cooler, the beaches are not crowded, and I still feel like I'm in America. I am hoping to find someone who likes walking a long empty beach when the only sounds are the surf, the birds, and each other.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who wants to be with someone like me! I'm an average guy who is just trying to get ahead of where I am without getting in any government agencies sights. I believe in being ecological, but also believe businesses are needed to support the billions of people alive today. I do believe that we are becoming too technologically dependent (which is why I have TV/VCR/DVD/DVR players in almost every room!).

I would like to meet someone who is tolerant of others and herself. I do not want to be around a woman who is obsessed with every ounce - I prefer a woman who is Rubenesque. In other words, I LIKE WOMEN WITH LARGE BREASTS! And I want the woman with the magnificent mammmaries, to enjoy having them played with in a variety of ways! I plan on doing a lot of traveling around Oregon and I want someone interesting to take with me!

I know all adults have some baggage, but we must be able to get past that. Tolerance is the prime ingredient in a successful long-term relationship. I have a lot of tolerance for other's eccentricities, and I'd expect the same from them towards me.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Harry Bellafonte, Kingston Trio, Brothers Four, Smothers Brothers, Beatles, Armstrong, Cash, etc

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being invited to be the third person in a couple's threesome. The wife is the one in charge and she tells us what she wants us to do to her, ...and to each other.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, I'll try almost any except pain or potty play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, large breasts and a soft ass

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The only celebrities I think of are the ones with very large breasts in magazines like BUF or Gent, and I don't remember their names.

I'm an old duffer - poor memory for names.

See previous answer for my fantasy.

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