Well, what can I say here? I am a southern gentleman on a peral mission to find a very special Lady, one with whom I can converse and correspond openly and without reserve. I am the type that would want to know a Lady from the shoulders up first, and then..... what will be, will be. Perhaps at times those conversations may even be of an erotic nature, although I will remain a gentleman even then. I don't really frequent bars or lounges much. I am somewhat shy, but have very deep feelings. I do have some sexual desires that are not gratified, but that is not the key factor in my quest here in AFF. I am married. However, my marital advantages and interactions have changed significantly over the past few years, not by my choice, without my peral input, and surely not to my liking. I will not go into details about her peral beliefs and ethics here. She has that right, and I will do my best to respect her wishes in our relationship. We have been married far too long, and I care for her far too deeply to just walk out. However, I now find that life is getting far too short to not enjoy some of its more simple pleasures. So... Right or wrong, I am looking. Judge me as you will... but I only ask that you judge me after you get to know me.

My Ideal Person I am seeking that special Lady, first as a friend and confidant, then who knows? If she understands my situation, perhaps intimacy. Perhaps it will not be.... but either way, it would have to be after we become friends, and also will have to be a mutual agreement. I am a man who loves to touch, cuddle, caress, and to be held and caressed. I absolutely love to kiss and smooch, and am good at that. I LOVE to perform oral stimulation, and have been told I do that very well. So... dreaming? Perhaps so. Filling a void?? Perhaps so. But there still has to be a connection... not saying love... but a connection.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Both giving and receiving massages, Perhaps try toys later

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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