Are you looking for a discreet FWB? I'm an easy-going, respectful, and straightforward married white male seeking a connection and discreet adult fun. Playing in the bedroom is a lot more fun than playing golf, playing video games, going shopping, or most anything else. I do enjoy various types of music (rock, pop, country, and classical), love dogs, travel, and movies. I also enjoy reading, primarily listening to recorded books in the car or while exercising. I'm not a sports nut, but it's okay if you are: maybe you can convert me! I'm an affectionate guy with a little experience with discreet relationships, so I won't flake out on you, just really enjoy pleasing and being pleased. I prefer slow and sensual to rough and rushed, and I like an active, enthusiastic partner who participates fully in our fun. I'm not satisfied if you aren't. I retired from an office job in downtown Chicago a couple of years ago. Easiest times for me to get away are daytimes or late afternoons during the workweek, or weekend afternoons. Preferably with some advance planning. Physically, I'm 5'8" tall, medium build (220 pounds), age 71, with brown hair (with traces of gray) and blue eyes. I exercise several times a week, but I'm not an athlete. Well-educated professional but not snobbish about it, str8, non-smoker, drug, disease, and drama-free. If we decide to spend some intimate time together, I can host (at hotels). Will send pics with emails. Ideally, I'd like an ongoing thing if we click, not a one-night stand. My best match would probably be a married or attached woman somewhat close to me in age, but I'm certainly interested in other ages and women who are single or divorced: just be interested in mutual fun. If there's something else you'd like to know, just ask. Let's make 2024 memorable!

My Ideal Person A sensual woman to share ongoing discreet fun and more.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having an encounter in a hotel room or office that is in a
tall building so that we can look out at a spectacular view
during our lovemaking

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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