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Sageflutterby 44 / F
"NO Divorcing or married, couples, NSA hooks ups or father figures!"
Mesa, Arizona, United States
 
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Member Since: August 13, 2011

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Sageflutterby 44/F
Mesa, Arizona
Looking for LTR. Also, APEX.
Introduction
Yes I am on a sex site. No I don't want only sex or hook ups. I want a long term per who will own me and I own them with no other people in the relationship. I want monogamy. I want emotional intimacy, loyalty, dinners at night together, going to bed at the same time, watching movies on the couch together, and waking up together to start the day. Some day I want marriage. I want to play video games together and have fun. And yes, that includes hot kinky sex with someone who is my partner but I'm not interested in people who are just getting divorced, not finalized in their divorce, already married, couples looking for a unicorn to play with them as their sex toy, men old enough to be my father, passive men or anyone else who doesn't want the same thing I want! Don't waste your precious time and mine by messaging me if you just want no strings attached sex, a sexual encounter, friends with benefits or are horny. I don't care why you joined this site. I care why I joined this site.

My Ideal Person I want someone who is comfortable with monogamy while we are in a relationship. He should be able to hold a good conversation and enjoy flirting and teasing. He should not be afraid to take the lead. Sometimes I like the man to be in control. He should like kissing and enjoy being touched and touching. I want someone with initiative. I am tired of doing all the work. I want to share pleasures.

The other person needs to be intelligent and detail oriented. Has to enjoy the same moral values as me and enjoy the same sexual kinks. The other person will not be out just to fuck, get his balls emptied or screw a girl's brains out because he's horny and not getting anything.

I'm horny too but I'm not fucking someone just because they are there. Geez people. Don't look this way at me if you just need sex. I am going to get what I want and I want a fuckton more than just sex. I don't care if I sound angry either.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Kenny Rogers, Enya, Chumbawumba, Alan Jackson, Lady Gaga, Katy
Perry, Tim McGraw, Offspring, WeirdAl

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, snuggling/cuddling too

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No I haven't. I always needed a mental attraction to
someone to get aroused. Looks alone don't do it for
me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 44 / female
  • Mesa, Arizona, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: June 9, 1979
Travels to: New Bern, North Carolina
Hometown: Eastern Allamakee, Iowa, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Communications
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Other
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Maybe
Bra Size: 36 / 80 B
Speaks: English, None
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: