Looking for friends to help fill the one area of life lacking (good sex life). I care about people and the other aspects of their life, definitely not looking to mess any of that up. Just looking for good, clean, safe sexual friendships. Attached and single women are more than welcome if they also seek NSA sex or a Friends With Benefits situation. Sexual partners can enjoy one another without it messing up the rest of their life. In fact, it can enhance life. After some time here at AFF, I am not sure I have found anyone real. I do want to say something that I hope women will not take the wrong way - PLEASE don't let the non-stop flattery you get from guys get to your head! Keep it real. Sure, I might not be the youngest, hottest sex partner you can pick from. But at least I will be real with you. If you are a single woman, sure I am fine with a one night stand, but it is not what I prefer. I would rather have a some type of honest friendship that includes sex. How many other guys you date or have sex with is up to you. I just want to meet women (single or attached) that bring some positive energy into my life. I usually find something to be attracted to in a woman, so yes, I will probably want sex as part of the friendship. But I am not looking to change you or mess anything you have going with others. I hope there are some realistic ladies in here. If so, PLEASE feel free to drop me a note. Thanks.

My Ideal Person Caring, upbeat with a good sex drive.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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