I have a very laid back and easy going personality. I get along with about everyone although I can be a little shy at first but, once I get comfortable with someone I can be pretty forward. I do enjoy good conversation and feel like I can carry on intelligently about many topics. I am a professional by day and just an old Vet and Country boy at heart. I am not in as good of shape as I used to be but I would say I still have the "Dad bod". I have recently started working out again trying get back to my athletic build that I once had. Currently I do have a beard (some love it, others hate it) and I have a hairy chest (again, love it or hate it). I am not a big fan of large crowds and clubs and prefer the "dive bar" types of places. They have a more intimate and real feel with real, down to earth people. I have a good sex drive and think about it a lot. I am interested in and curious about most things and am willing to try most things at least once. I can be soft and sensual, rough, aggressive and dominate or passive and submissive willing to let you take control. It really just depends on the mood and situation.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is open minded to my situation. I am separated but we still live together and are going to start the divorced process next year. Essentially, we have been married for kids and we both have permission to do what we want but we still want to keep things as private a possible for our kids.

I am looking for a FWB with an emphasis on the "friends" part. I want someone to have a drink with, catch a movie or just get together for a lunch. If we connect all the other fun adult activities usually happen. Ultimately, I would like to find someone to enjoy life with for the long term.

I don't have a preferred type. Age, body type, race doesn't matter to me. A great smile, beautiful eyes, and s personality that connects is what shape your attractiveness to me.

Let's talk and see what happens.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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