Married, but physically neglected so I’m exploring options. I’m highly charged sexually, however I’m not going to start chatting with someone this morning and be in bed with them by noon. If I wanted to do that I would stand on the corner and get paid for it- I’m a lady, not a . That being said I’m needing to be fulfilled on both sides of the spectrum, the slow and sensuous as well as the hard and rough. Some pain is always welcomed; I’ll take the cold, steel LE grade handcuffs over the pink fuzzy ones, some hot candle wax on my skin, a hand around my throat..... I’m very content in my role as the submissive, I just need to find a dominating man who will (or should I say CAN) control me. Also I'm way overdue on sex with a woman......