Recently divorced. My ex and I had a good sex life, but I always wanted to take it farther and she wanted to keep it intimate, which I respected and remained faithful for the duration of our marriage. But now that we are no longer married (for other reas), I am ready to play. I have always wanted to live the “life style”, and happy to join if you need a participant, However, long term I would prefer to find someone who wants to live the “life style” as well. As a guy, it is probably not unusual that I have fantasy’s of threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. I would love to attend a swingers event, and even more fascinated about going to a swinger resort somewhere in the tropics. But I would enjoy most to do it with the right, sexually adventuress woman. But that is not to say I can't be faithful. Quite the contrary, I believe that in a secure relationship, our adventures would be intended to enhance our sex life. We would always play together, and I would never ask my partner to do anything she is not comfortable with, or do anything she didn't want me to do. So some basics about myself. I am a Caucasian man, recently turned 50. I am a professional and financially secure. I enjoy going out with friends for food , drink and laughs. Hope you do to. I am disease and drug free and looking for the same. I do work out regularly to try and keep the love handles to a minimum, not to say that I don’t have a few cause I do. Nor will I try to impress you with any references to sexual prowess, I am just a normal guy who likes sex (maybe that’s redundant). So if you are looking for a normal guy, I will reply with a photo.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a sexually adventurous woman who is fun and easy going (both in bed and out). My preference, but not necessary, is a woman with a slender body.

A woman who is easy going and doesn't take life too seriously. Someone who enjoys adventure, being out, meeting others, and likes to laugh.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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