[COLOR darkblue][SIZE 3]Hi and thanks for stopping by! I’ll go out on a limb a little bit here. Actually I’m just being [b][i]totally honest and up-front[/i][/b] so that I won’t waste anyone’s time, including my own. I use a chair due to a spinal cord injury from breaking my neck in a car accident in 1975. I was 18, [i]invincible[/i], and just out of high school. My roommate, the driver, was drinking and I was asleep in the back seat until I woke up in the hospital wondering what kind of nightmare I was having. It’s been long enough ago that I have adapted quite well to the situation. I’ve had friends tell me that I impress them, with my positive outlook on life. After a few years of adjustment to my new life, I got tired of waiting each month for a social security check so I went out and became a computer programmer / web developer. I still have a great life – just looking for a little more fun and excitement. Are you still reading? Okay, cool… Since I broke my neck, you might think that I’m paralyzed from the neck down. Medically, that’s the way it’s referred to (I’m a “quad”), but unless the nerve damage is above the 3rd or 4th vertebrae, one’s arms still have some movement and use. I broke my neck at the 4th and 5th so I “lucked out.” I can actually drive, and have a modified 4x4 van to get around in. I mainly need help with stuff like getting in and out of bed, dressing, showering, etc. I do fairly well on my own once I’m out of bed. And by the way, there [i][b]are[/b][/i] certain parts of my anatomy that [b][i]aren’t[/b][/i] paralyzed! :D This is one of the [i]stereotyped[/i] ideas that society has that’s wrong. Another one is the idea that someone who becomes “disabled” suddenly loses all of their sexuality. At the very most, one might lose their [i]ability[/i] in their anatomy, but these days there are ways around this. If you’re [i]still[/i] reading, good… I’m sure that some have left by now. I don’t feel negative about that; I can understand there are people who feel awkward or uncomfortable about someone like me. Or it could be just a turn-off to some; hey, everyone has their own peral preferences. But I know for a fact that there [b][i]are[/b][/i] women out there who don’t even see a chair when they look at me, and [i][b]couldn’t care less[/i][/b] about it. Some women are even [b][i]turned on[/i][/b] by it in someway or curious enough to want to know more. I know this ‘cause I’ve dated a few of them. So much for the technical stuff, but it had to be said. And fair is fair - I hope that you will be as honest as me, and not into games. I’m real and want you to be real too. [center]---------------------------------------[/center] I’m intelligent and great at learning new things. I’m pretty good at making people feel at ease with me. As a partner or friend, I’m open, honest, and reliable. I’m a gentle, sensual guy and love kissing, touching, massaging, fondling and lots more. I enjoy making new friends, going to the beach, going out for live music, for dinner and drinks… watching movies or listening to music at home. I have an excellent home theatre setup and a fireplace in my bedroom. I’ve always been kind of a hifi nut and my system makes music sound like a concert and movies better than at a theatre. I also enjoy getting out of town for the weekend somewhere with less concrete and cars. I love finding a nice dirt road somewhere in the hills to take my 4x4 van, or taking a weekend road trip. I was married for six years and it didn’t work out so we’ve both moved on with our life with no grudges. Now I’m looking for some new friends, and one or two so-called "friends with benefits". I have no “baggage” from the past but I just need a break from having strings attached to me. I would say that I don’t want to be emotionally involved right now, but that’s not really correct. If things click with a woman physically and mentally and it gets to the point of intimacy, the sex wouldn’t be as good with no emotions involved. I just don’t want the [i]strings[/i] at this point in my life. I feel that someday I’ll want to "go steady" with one woman again, but for now I'm just looking to see who's out there in the meantime. I’m not an animal in heat, although I [i][b]do[/i][/b] have those urges. As a human being I have the capacity for high levels of consciousness, but I also have an animal body inherent with varying degrees of animalistic tendencies and urges. By suppressing those "animalistic" urges in myself I would be attempting to defy nature. I’m not trying to build a harem; I’ve never even dated more than one woman at a time. I would just like to have one or two female friends who are also interested in exploring our mutual urges. I’m more interested in on-going connections than one time NSA sex. Falling in love and a LTR not ruled out, but let's see if that evolves. And everyone needs friends - that's where everything starts at. So I'm looking for friends too. If I’ve piqued your interest at all, then drop me a line. I want to hear from you! Check out my [blog hornydewd66 blog]! [/SIZE][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person ISO wonderful moments of passion and friendship with smart, sane, and sexy women in my general area. Looks, age and race not an issue – it's what's in your head and your heart that matters; show me your passions. What are you excited by? And what kinds of connections would you like to make? I’m seeking women who are open-minded enough to not be scared off by a silly chair. Someone who feels comfortable enough with themselves to feel safe about asking me anything that comes to mind.

By the way, Standard members can contact me.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Genesis, Pink Floyd, Yes, Supertramp, Led Zeppelin, SteelyDan, CSNY,
Elton John, Jethro Tull, etc

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I’m an inpatient at the Spinal Cord
Injury clinic for a few days getting some physical therapy.
I had been here for 5 ½ months some 32 years ago, right after
my injury. One night the nurses’ aids are making their night
shift rounds, going room to room {6 beds each) to change
the position in bed of anyone who can’t do it themselves.
With my injury, I need to change position about every two
hours on a regular bed or it’s possible to get a bed sore;
in my waterbed I can stay in the same position for much longer,
but I digress. Sponge baths and showers aren’t given at
night, so I’m just expecting to be flipped over onto my stomach,
since I can stay like that for the night and not have to be
woken up every two hours. My bed is next to the back wall.
I notice that my nurse is a young woman – a very shapely and
sexy young woman with long black hair – looking fine in her
scrubs. We exchange “hi”s and she asks me how I’m doing.
I say “just fine, thanks. And you?” She’s smiling and looking
at me as if she’s thinking about something. She starts to
pull the curtain around my bed. But they never pull the curtain
just to turn people. And her partner isn’t with her. I don’t
say anything and when the curtains are pulled she asks me
if I’d like a sponge bath. I say “only a fool would say ‘no,
’ sugar!” with a “shit eating” grin on my face. I wipe the grin
off quickly because the next thing I know her lips are on
mine and our tongues are playing with a frenzy. With one
hand she starts to take my “gizmo” off while still kissing
me. Gizmo is a nickname they gave to the condom catheters
that SCI guys have to use. Luckily I know when I have to piss
but I have no control of the muscle to hold it back. I’ve never
"leaked” (promise) while playing with a woman, but
I digress again. The gizmo can be taken off quickly but she
is taking her time. She’s feeling for the end of the tape
around the base, and notices that what she’s doing is causing
a full erection. When she gets it off I’m as hard as steel.
She takes a soapy washcloth and spreads my legs a little
to wash my balls. She’s massaging with one hand and washing
with the other. My cock is throbbing when she starts washing
up and down the length of the shaft. And even more when she
holds the head and bends me down some to wash underneath.
Then she holds the shaft and carefully washes the head.
She changes to a washcloth with no soap and rinses everything
off. She’s concentrating on the head again, taking longer
than “necessary.” She’s either enjoying teasing me, or
just trying to be thorough, or both. She puts the washcloths
aside and looks at me with a smile. Then with no hesitation
she leans over and takes the head of my cock in her mouth.
I can’t hold back a low moan but she glances at me to be quiet.
She swirls her tongue around the head, and then takes half
of the length in her mouth. I’m caressing her jet black hair
and very gently push down on her head. She slowly takes more
and more of me while rubbing my balls. She can’t quite take
it all but holds it in for a few seconds and starts bobbing
her head up and down going faster and faster and deeper.
She’s driving me nuts and notices me flicking my tongue
on my lips to show her that I’m dying to taste her. She shakes
her head and starts licking my balls. Just then someone
paged her on the intercom. That’s as far as my “surprise”
would go, or she might get caught. She puts a new gizmo on
me, turns and lifts up the top of her scrubs, revealing the
sexiest 36 C’s I’ve ever seen. She brought them close enough
for me to caress, and then told me she better go. I reluctantly
agree – after she writes down her phone number for me and
tells me to call her after I get discharged.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage, Playing on my custom built desk that I designed.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. I’m not into celebrities. Most
of them seem too fake and stuck on themselves. Ever notice
that most celebrities only marry or hang out with other
celebrities?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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