loneleix 58 / M
"Experienced at Life"
Huntsville, Alabama, United States
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loneleix 58/M
Huntsville, Alabama
I'm a rough edged stone worn smooth tumbling in rapid water. I'm travelling still. Hungry for things yet unseen and sensations yet unfelt. I sometimes think this forum is similar to putting a note in a bottle and setting it adrift on the vast ocean of the inter webs. If you find my note, my signal beacon of one vibrant soul looking for another; let me know.

I'm ready to try something new. I am coming out of a serious relationship that lasted quite a while. It isn't my first and probably won't be my last, but to be perfectly honest I quit believing in happily ever after quite some time ago.

People who are truly alive evolve. If they are open enough to new experiences they are constantly evolving. Every conversation, every book, every new experience is a learning experience. No one can expect to be the same person tomorrow that they are today unless they shut themselves off from learning new things.

Therefore, relationships evolve as well. It's possible to find yourself on the same path at the same time with someone else. It's unreasonable to expect you will both evolve at the same rate in the same way. The only people who aren't evolving are already dead.

I've had numerous really good relationships that didn't last forever. I expect I will have more. The quality of a relationship doesn't have much to do with how long it lasts in my opinion but rather how deeply it affects.

I've tried dating sites before but find the lack of honesty and clarity of thought to be mind numbing. People who expect to find the brass ring in a field of broken dreams and facile projections are deluding themselves. Everyone enjoys loving others and being loved. Unfortunately, it isn't necessarily a sign that you are endless soulmates when it happens.

I would like to find someone here who is looking for someone to share life with them. LIfe is good and bad, up and down, sideways and out of control and everything in between. It isn't all moonlit walks on endless beaches and mind blowing sex even though I enjoy both quite a bit. It doesn't have to last forever but it has to be real and honest. LIfe is too short for pretending or settling for someone you can coexist peaceably with.

I like sex. I always have. Good sex is mental as well as physical. It's all about learning what your partner likes and tapping into the ultimate erogenous zone; the mind. That doesn't happen instantaneously and it takes two people willing to learn and explore the possibilities. That takes a certain amount of trust and understanding. It's great when your fantasies can align with my own but none of that can happen until we are both able and willing to share.

I would like to find someone else looking for these same things. I'm open to sex for the sake of sex but I'm also realistic enough to know that it won't hold my attention for long unless it can grow and evolve.

If any of this strikes a chord let me know. It doesn't even have to be positive chord just a basic human response. I'll be glad to receive and respond to intelligent thoughts, even if they disagree with my own.


I hate to gripe but here goes:

I'm 58 years old. I am NOT a suitable choice for most of the young women who are contacting me on here. Save your time and trouble. Whatever it is that you expect to get from contacting men on here; I'm positive you will have better luck contacting someone else. Best of luck to you in your search.

Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

My Ideal Person I'd like to take you for a ride
Down some rain slick road
Where your thoughts can't hide
And your fears are afraid to go

  • 58 / male
  • Huntsville, Alabama, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: December 6, 1959
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 6 ft 1 in / 185-187 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Prefer not to say
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None
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