When you start to know someone, all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize the scent of their skin. You see only the essence of the per, not the shell. That's why you can't fall in love with beauty. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it, want to own it... You can love it with your eyes and your body but not your heart. And that's why, when you really connect with a per's inner self, any physical imperfections disappear; become irrelevant. - Sal Raphel' So, who am I? Do you let your base needs pass judgement because I'm not the fuckable Barbie doll you've been taught to value? Nope. I'm a flesh and blood per. Like you, I've been through 'the fire and emerged on the other side, but I am getting weary of spending time with myself, and because of that, have ventured back into the social jungle, trying to rebuild myself into the existing Victoria alternative communities. I know i need healthy peeps. Appropriate people with free will and agency to use it. Who wouldn't normally be caught dead on a website as sexist as this one without a similar philosophy to mine... of openminded ness, of live and let live. I know... why look for an eskimo in the tropics... but at least this is me dangling my message in a bottle in the wattah. I'm a young woman for my age, old school, and I'm seeking people with a similar philosophy. No military, corporate, cigarette smoking, Neil Diamond fans, meat eaters or non-active sheeple, please. (The only sedentary people I would consider getting to know are wheelchair bound.)I enjoy soul music/ R&B/ hangingout with musical types, not people who are in bed asleep by 8:30, please. I'm obtuse, obscure and at 55, obsolete in this busy world. Having found my niche means I can thumb my nose at the whole damn system and function around it, in spite of it. Don't come sniffin' around my porch if you have 'agendas' that require only sexual satisfaction, because i hate to tell ya, but that's a dance I'm so done with... I'm looking for cool folks who wanna get off the couch... share time, do stuff, get more active, with. My sexual orientation is irrelevant at this time in my life, I'm an equal opportunity friend/ lover and can use allies of both genders. Just don't blame me if I'm more prone to trust a woman over a man after the wringer I just came out of. How about you give a girl a rea to be intrigued? Let nature take its course from there... I'm a passionate broad, but no more will I toss my heart in the ring until I am sure you are healthy enough and strong enough to be able to handle it with love and care.

My Ideal Person Gets what I just wrote. Is not foolishly afraid of my fierceness, my size, my original mind. Courageous beyond belief in the face of what's coming down the pike at our generation...