i am a 48 yr. old man who is straight i have recemtly seperated from a almost 20 yr marriage . i have made a few friends here and you know who you are . sorry i dont kiss and tell . i am a very private person i am first and foremost a father who spends most of my time off work with them. i also have parents who as you can tell by my age are aging themselves . they also require my time . the reason i am putting this here is because anytime i begin to chat or try to start a friendship here i am accused of being married and running around or that i have something to hide . well i dont . but i do have obligations . and your time is no more important than mine. not trying to be hard to get along with but just to get this out of the way. i am very honest and expect you to be also. i consider that a very important factor in a relationship . probabaly the most. i have no reason to lie to you. either you like me or you dont. see no reason so if i have to meet you on your rules and your standards alone then we stand a very good chance of not making it . i enjoy sex . but i have always been in vanilla type relationships so i would need someone who has patients and the understanding that just because i think i might like something after we try i might just find out i dont like it as much as i thought i would . i am very open to fantasies both mine and yours. and if you get past my ass like profile . whitch i promise im not really like that after you get to know me. you will find out that i am a pleaser at heart . who is really into seeing thier partner satisfied . you will find out that i dont need partners in a relationship. i am not a cheater. but am open to whatever fantasies we would like to try . i am not brad pitt and i am also not hung like a . just your avg. guy next door . i live in a small town and due to my seperation and out of respect for my family . i will never post a pic on here . i am more than happy to send you one though thru email . well if you havent clicked me closed yet and your still interested drop me a line and lets see what happens . have a great day and good luck with your searches

My Ideal Person not sure what the ideal person is seeking a woman who is confident in herself.not stuck on looks. much rather meet a real person with a good sense of humor and good attitude who is down to earth.who can be spontanious and want to try some things on the wild side.but who also doesnt have to party all the time to be happy.someone who can enjoy a walk on the beach holding hands or a nice quite dinner at home. someone who is not pushy. i hate pushy people. u can respect boundries and still have a good time.would be intrested in a woman who is bi but thats not a deal breaker one way or the other.attitude and personality are foremost. confidense is very sexy. someone who speaks thier mind. i like knowing that what you say i can count on . i am not looking to get married again anytime soon . but who knows . if your really the ideal person who could resist